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Eddy’s Birthday 2010

The kids mother, Kristy, Becky and her two children, Patty, Grandma, and Deanna all were present for Eddy’s 12th birthday. Next year will be his turn to be a teenager, but for right now he is not there yet. It is always good to have so much family around for a birthday celebration. Just like every birthday for the past couple years this one was a cookout. I am thinking that next year I will have to start investing in higher quality beef though, because I am not liking how the burgers are coming out. Everything was good, but I think everything can be better.

Eddy did not receive a great deal of gifts for his birthday this year, and I am told by parents who have older children that this theme will continue. Older they get the more expensive the gifts get and so it follows that they receive fewer. This year Eddy got a blue DSi XL and Pokemon Heart Gold. That game comes with a pedometer that actually helps you earn items and level up your Pokemon, so I think Eddy will want to walk around a lot! We all had a great time and of course if you want to see all the pictures from the birthday you can view them on the pictures page.

Patty’s Birthday or Lucky Number 13

The big 13. This is the birthday where the child becomes a teenager and the parents get to feel a bit older. I do not remember feeling like asking “where did the time go” since I turned 30. I have to say that it is a weird birthday. She is already starting to put away her toys and she is asking for make-up and clothes now. She wonders when she will get a cell phone and she wants more money for stuff.

A great many people showed up for this birthday. More than I think have shown up to anybody’s birthday at this house ever. We had all the people that live here, which is Deanna, Grandma, Patty, Eddy, and I. Kristy showed up and Michelle was here visiting for the weekend. Becky showed up with her two kids as well. It was a good thing the weather was so nice that we could do all the cooking and eating outside, because I do not think we would have had much room to seat that many people in my tiny dining room.

Patty got all the presents she asked for, for the most part anyway. She also asks regularly for a laptop and a cell phone, but those things are not going to happen anytime soon. Patty got new clothes, posters for her wall, a Justin Bieber CD (I still think in this world of downloading music on the internet it is important to be able to give people the physical media that they can listen to and give away to their friends if they want), and a Betta. The last one is a fish that apparently her mother has, so she wanted one too.

Trip to Maryland

My sister, Becky, invited me to drive out to Maryland to see our parents and brother. I decided it would be a good idea, for a great many reasons. The first is that I have not been out there since they moved into a house. The second is that this would be the first time either of us had seen our brother this year, because while my parents did take a trip to Ohio and we all visited them in the hotel our brother did not come, and instead opted to stay home. The third is that Becky offered to drive and she just got a new and very comfortable car.

We drove out there and it did not seem to take long at all. We left early in the morning on Saturday and we were there by around 1 in the afternoon. We arrived, said hello to everyone, and after we got done talking and sitting around we decided it was time to do something. We decided to go see a movie. Becky, Adam, and I all piled into the car, and with my brother’s directions, we all went to see “Despicable Me”. We did not go to the 3D showing (side note: Kristy actually took the kids to see this movie and I really wanted to go see it anyway). The movie was great fun and then we went out for ice cream. When we got back to my parents house Becky and I had to make the decision of either staying or going to a hotel. There was some discussion and we ended up staying. I went to sleep in Adam’s room and Becky slept in the living room on an inflatable mattress.

We awoke to breakfast and coffee. My Dad is a great cook and he always wakes up early to make breakfast whenever we visit. Becky and I decided to hang out with Adam for the day again, so again off we went to putt putt golf. It was a great deal of fun and then again we went out for ice cream. We hung out at the mall for a bit, because it is a great air conditioned place to just wander around and do nothing. We ate pizza. My brother bought a shirt and I bought Hot Tamales Gum. We drove back, said our good-byes, and started the drive back to Ohio. I will try and avoid driving through Pennsylvania at night, because it seems to take forever. There really seems to be a huge difference between driving at night and day.

4th of July 2010

This was a fantastic 4th of July. Deanna, Patty, Eddy, and I all went to downtown Akron to see the fireworks. Originally it was not clear there would be fireworks, since there was a rumor that Akron actually did not have the funds for it, because of the recession, but they did end up having the show. It was different than other 4th of July firework shows in Akron though, because they blocked access to the bridge that people usually congregate around to watch the show. I believe that was due to the construction. It was the kind of 4th of July that I think might have started a new family tradition. The fireworks are only about 2 miles from my house in downtown Akron, so this year instead of fighting the traffic and all the hassle of finding parking for the event we just rode our bikes. It was a great idea and it worked out splendidly.

The ride downtown was not too bad. I think it took me almost as long to do some quick maintenance on the bikes before we left as it took us all to ride the two and a half miles downtown. I worry sometimes having to ride my bike around so many fast moving cars with the kids in tow, but we were able to take a lot of side streets before we had to get on any main routes. Patty ended up suggesting that we go down to the park area where you see the pictures taken from. This is actually where the towpath runs through Akron. We have not gone on the towpath this year, but we should probably get around to that in the next month. People were standing on the bridge that you see in the pictures, but we all wanted to sit down on something that was not cement.

The fireworks show itself was pretty mediocre. The kids were teasing each other and generally restless before, after, and during the show. I do not remember if I was unable to sit still and wait for fireworks when I was their age, but I know I really appreciate fireworks now. The show might not have been cancelled, but it was evident that there were some cutbacks. The firework show started much later than it was supposed to, there was not much of a grand finale, and I think the entire show lasted approximately 10 minutes. Despite all these things though a firework show is still sort of an amazing thing to just sit and watch.

When the fireworks were over we had to head back home. I did not want to say anything, but I was leading, so I led everyone to McDonald’s. It was a little out of the way, and there was a very long line when we got there, but it was completely worth it to have some ice cream before going home. When we got home I opened up the boxes of Sparklers that I got at Wal-Mart and started lighting them up. The kids ran around the front yard pretending that they were in some sort of Harry Potter adventure (as a side note Eddy is actually reading all of the Harry Potter books). I always promised myself that I would make sure that my kids got to run around with Sparklers.

Ice Skating

Deanna really loves ice skating, but I have not really been up for it this summer. She decided it would be something fun to do with the kids and the only thing I asked was that if she went that she should take pictures. She found an ice skating rink in North Canton that is reasonably priced. They have actually gone twice as of this post, but I do not have pictures of the second time they went. I will have to go and take the pictures myself if I want more and better pictures.

The kids are still getting used to the skates. They had to try the figure skates and the hockey skates to see the difference. As of right now I still do not believe that Eddy has decided between skates. Michelle is actually the only one who knows how to skate, because apparently she used to go quite a bit when she was younger. Patty and Eddy do not have this advantage, since this was actually the first time they have gone. They have gone rollerskating a great many times, but despite people saying that the concepts are similar and almost insinuating interchangeable I have personally found that ice skating is far more difficult, and apparently that was the same experience Patty and Eddy had since they fell down several times.

The important thing is as always that they had fun and that they enjoyed the new experience. I would say they most certainly did, since they want to go back. I am sure that we will try and make this something we can all do as a family. I have not really felt like going back since the first time I went last year, but I am sure to give it another try. Maybe if the kids really get into this we can buy them their own skates.

Michelle’s Birthday

Michelle turned 15, and while I was not able to do anything for her on her actual birthday that did not stop us from having a little mini-party on Friday when I went to drop off the kids for the weekend. I brought some dinner and Kristy got the cake, so the only thing we needed was to drive out there and sign a song, light some candles, and eat!

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Bowling

Deanna wanted to go bowling real bad. Even since she got here really. I decided it was time to go ahead and do that. Deanna, Michelle, Patty, Eddy, and I all got in the car and drove down to the Akron Lanes, which is only about 15 minutes from here. I opted against getting the bumpers for the lane, because I really feel it is time for the kids to learn to bowl the correct way.

Deanna is the only one of us that owns her own shoes and a bowling ball, so the first thing we had to do was figure out what size shoe we wear and find a ball. They had a decent selection and I think that the kids will get more of an idea how this all works and make the process more streamlined when we go again. I imagine that we might be able to swing the cost of doing this about once a month.

We signed up for two games. It was a great deal of fun. The kids did fairly well for this being their first time without the bumpers. They were really working on their form and learning how to line up and throw the ball. They will probably get it over time. It is a good family activity. I had the kids remember their scores, because I told them that they should always try and beat their own score. That is who you are really playing against when you bowl – yourself.

Tons of Snow

Ohio did not get the amount of snow that the east coast got, but it sure seems like a great deal, and it keeps coming. The kids have been unfortunate enough to not get a single snow day during the entire blizzard, because it doesn’t snow at night, which always allows the plows to get out and clear the roads before school begins. I think some other school districts actually had snow days, but not Akron. They just kept plowing and the snow kept stopping. The other deciding factor would be the actual temperature, but the lowest it has dropped is in the teens.

I went outside and shoveled the driveway, and Eddy came outside and helped. Patty helped some as well, but near as much as Eddy. The snow has continued to fall and while I have gone outside to push the shovel around and remove a few more inches of snow from atop my driveway I have to admit that I had to give up. The snow is just beating me this year. I think I should buy more shovels for next year, because these kids are certainly big enough to help now. It is getting to be too much to do by myself.

Michelle was over this weekend as well. I helped her with homework. It was a project where she had to start submitting sources for a paper on to a website. It is interesting and a good use of technology, but Michelle does not actually have internet access at home. I know student teaching in Akron most of those students would not have had access to this sort of thing either. It was fun having her over here. I hope she comes out again soon.

Browns vs. Jaguars

My sister invited me to the last Browns game of the season. I finally got to meet the person who has been giving her all the tickets. The best part of this story is that the Cleveland Browns won, and that is the first time that I have been at the new stadium for a game that they have won.

I would like to spend a minute describing the cold. The picture above is of my sister holding a beer upside down. The beer is quite obviously frozen, as any beer that we would have would be, because it was below freezing outside. I do not know exactly how cold it was, but at one point I think someone said that it was 12 degrees. I do not know if this is something everyone is aware of, but when you find out the temperature in Cleveland you are only getting half the story. Due to lake effect and wind chill you do not know how cold it really is until you take those two things into account. The stadium is right next to the lake, and I have to imagine that with those two things counted in it was probably well into the negatives.

I met the nice young woman who has been supplying the tickets for me this year. I got to go to the pre-season game against the Detroit Lions and this game. She was really nice, and it turns out that she will probably be able to do this same thing next year. That is very promising, because I would definitely enjoy going to more games.

The women were bundled up much better than I was. I think they were each wearing like 3 coats each. It was nice being there for the Browns actually winning for a change. We went out to eat afterwards. It was a nice way to bring in the new year. Maybe it’s a sign that this year will be better than the last. My sister took all these photos with her iPhone, because I was running a bit late to the game and forgot my camera. The pictures came out really well though, and that is good.

Christmas: Part II

I said there would be a part two, because I still had another present left for Eddy. That present has come all the way from Japan and I was finally able to give it to him. Thus concluding Christmas on my part, and ensuring that the kids got the one thing that they really wanted, which is good, because they really only got one thing for Christmas this year.

The toy passed through customs and made it to Jo’s door on Tuesday, so really it did not spend that long in customs. I had no idea it was even that close to being delivered, because while I got an update that it was entering customs on the USPS website I did not receive the same sort of notice when it left customs and started heading from Chicago to here. Jo called me when he got the notice that the delivery had been missed, and we decided to meet in Cuyahoga Falls.

We met in the parking lot and moved it from the trunk of his car to the trunk of mine. We went inside and ate. I brought the kids with me. We ate and then parted ways. I went to GameStop, because I wanted to trade in more games, because I have been trading in a great deal of games lately. The guys inside know me and when I told them about the gift they wanted me to go ahead and give it to him there in the GameStop. He was shocked. I wish I had a picture of his expression. Mouth agape and just pure joy.

We brought it home and we assembled it without any problems. The only thing I actually had to do to help really was get the batteries, because they were not included. He was wearing it. He is still wearing it. He has been wearing it every day. I don’t mind as long as he doesn’t take it outside and break it or lose it. I have warned him that people will try and steal it. That seems to be a theme for Akron and I want him to be aware of it. This was a good Christmas.